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Tools for Managing Stress & Anxiety | Huberman Lab Podcast #10



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Welcome to the Huberman Lab Podcast,
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where we discuss science and science-based tools
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for everyday life.
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I'm Andrew Huberman,
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and I'm a professor of neurobiology and ophthalmology
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at Stanford School of Medicine.
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This podcast is separate
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from my teaching and research roles at Stanford.
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It is, however, part of my desire and effort
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to bring zero cost to consumer information
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about science and science-related tools
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to the general public.
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In keeping with that theme,
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I'd like to thank the sponsors of today's podcast.
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Our first sponsor is Inside Tracker.
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to give you an accurate assessment
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There are many things about our health
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that can only be analyzed from blood and DNA tests.
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I've been getting my blood assessed for many years now,
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and about a year ago, I switched to Inside Tracker.
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What I like about Inside Tracker
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is that you get all this information back
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that are really important to your health.
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But unlike a lot of blood tests
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where you just get all the numbers back
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normal, or low, Inside Tracker also has this really useful
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and other sorts of protocols that you can use
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to get the numbers where you want them for your health.
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If you'd like to try Inside Tracker,
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you can go to insidetracker.com slash Huberman,
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and they will give you 25% off any of their programs.
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Again, their programs allow you to assess your health
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from the inside, things that you could just never assess
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from any kind of test that didn't involve blood and DNA.
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And it also has this really interesting feature
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that it can measure your inner age,
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which is based on biology.
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Your chronological age, of course,
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is very informative about your health
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and where you ought to be in terms of health metrics,
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but people vary.
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We know people, of course,
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that are in their late 90s who are doing well.
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We know people that are in their 50s who are struggling
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or even in their 20s.
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So blood and DNA are the way to analyze your health.
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That's my belief.
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That's why I use Inside Tracker.
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You take a brief two-minute questionnaire quiz,
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ask you questions like, do you sleep on your back
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or your side or your stomach?
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Maybe you don't know,
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maybe you move around a lot during the night.
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It also asks you questions such as,
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do you tend to run hot or wake up cold?
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Things of that sort.
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to your sleep needs.
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For me, I matched to the so-called DUSK mattress,
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and I love it.
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I sleep better than ever.
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And right now, if you want to try Helix Sleep,
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Some of you have asked how you can help support the podcast
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in yet other ways besides just checking out our sponsors.
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We really appreciate the question,
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and we've set up a Patreon account at
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patreon.com slash Andrew Huberman,
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which allows you to donate to the podcast
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at a variety of different levels.
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We have, for instance, the 5HTP,
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which is in honor of serotonin,
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5HTP is the name for serotonin,
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that allows you to donate $5 per month.
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We have the Circadian,
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which as many of you, of course, will know is 24-hour day.
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So you can donate $24 a month if you like.
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You can also pick any value that you want.
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We even have the Costello, which is $10 a month,
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which allows you to support the podcast
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in honor of Costello, the fact that he's 10 years old,
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that he eats 10 pounds of food a day,
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and the fact that he takes 10 one-hour naps per day
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on average.
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So again, that's patreon.com slash Andrew Huberman
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if you'd like to support the podcast that way.
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Today's episode is going to be all about
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the science of emotions.
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The first month of the podcast,
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we talked about sleep and wakefulness.
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Last month, we were talking about neuroplasticity,
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the brain's ability to change in response to experience.
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And this month, we're going to talk about
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these things that we call emotions.
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We're going to decipher what they are, how they work,
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how we can control them,
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when we might not want to control them.
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There are going to be four episodes on emotions.
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And today, we're going to talk in particular
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about something that most often is called stress.
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You might be thinking, wait, stress isn't an emotion,
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but stress really lies at the heart
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of whether or not our internal experience
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is matched well or not to our external experience
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or the events that are happening to us and around us.
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And as you'll soon see, those converge or combine
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to create what we call emotions.
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Now, I want to be very clear
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that we're going to talk about the biology of emotions.
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We're going to talk a little bit about
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some psychological concepts related to emotion.
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And we are definitely going to talk about tools
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to control what we call stress
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or commonly think of as stress.
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We're also going to clean up some common myths about stress.
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For instance, that stress impairs your immune system.
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That's true in certain contexts.
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And in other contexts,
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stress actually enhances your immune system
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and makes it function better.
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There is going to be a lot of discussion
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about whether or not our internal state,
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whether or not we are alert or calm is good or bad
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depending on the circumstances.
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So where we're headed here is I'd like you to come away
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from today's episode with what I call
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an organizational logic, a framework for thinking about
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these things that typically we just call happy or sad
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or depressed or anxious.
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And I'm going to make sure that you have tools
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that are grounded in physiology and neuroscience
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that will allow you to navigate
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this otherwise complex space that we call emotions
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that will allow you to ground yourself better
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when you're feeling like life is weighing on you
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or you're kind of being pulled by the currents of life
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as well as to support other people,
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whether or not that's in a psychological practice
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if you're a practitioner or you have clients or children
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or spouses really to be able to support other people
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in your environment better.
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And the tools that I'm going to focus on today
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range from behavioral tools.
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We will talk about some of the more valuable
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supplementation tools that are out there.
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And we're going to talk a little bit
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about things like depression, PTSD,
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but we will be devoting entire episodes
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to things like depression, PTSD,
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and even attention deficit and obsessive compulsive disorder
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which believe it or not,
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although this might not surprise many of you,
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have a very strong emotional component.
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It's just not just about compulsive behaviors
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and intrusive thoughts.
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It's also about the emotional load of being in that state.
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So I promise that today we're going to clean up
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a lot of misunderstanding.
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We're going to give you a lot of tools
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and you're going to learn a lot about the biology
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of how your body and brain work together.
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Because if ever there was a topic
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that brought together the brain and body
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or mind-body relationship, it's stress and emotions.
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It's also the positive emotions.
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When we feel something, whether or not we're super happy
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or just feeling kind of pleasant,
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or we are feeling stressed, anxious, and overwhelmed,
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it isn't just in our head, it's also in our body.
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And as you may recall, the nervous system,
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which includes the brain and the eyes and the spinal cord,
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but also all the connections with the organs of the body
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includes the brain and body.
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And those organs of the body,
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your gut and your liver and your spleen,
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they're also communicating with the brain.
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So I look forward to a day in fact,
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when we no longer think about neuroscience
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as just the brain.
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And many neuroscientists now
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also think about the body of course,
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the brain controls the body,
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but the body is also having a very profound
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and concrete influence on the brain.
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I think up until recently,
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people would hear about kind of brain-body
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and always think about mindfulness.
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We're actually not going to talk that much
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about mindfulness at all today.
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Mindfulness is kind of a vague concept in fact.
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When you think about mindfulness,
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it's good to take the opposite.
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What's the opposite of mindfulness would be mindlessness.
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Well, all of a sudden we're into territory
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that isn't really easy for one person
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to describe their experience
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or to help others with their experience.
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Today, we're going to talk about objective tools
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that match the brain-body experience
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or separate the brain-body experience
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in ways that leverage your ability to lean into life better,
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to feel better, literally to just feel better
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about what you're experiencing
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and believe it or not,
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to be able to control your emotions when that's appropriate.
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This isn't about becoming robotic.
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This isn't about trying not to feel human.
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This is actually about being able to lean into life better
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as a consequence of being able to control
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some of your inner real estate,
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this nervous system that includes the brain and body
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and how that nervous system is interacting
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with the outside world.
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So it's to place you in a greater position of power.
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And so let's get started in deciphering what is stress,
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what are emotions and why did I batch stress and emotions
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into one discussion today?
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Okay, so what is stress?
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We hear all the time that stress is bad.
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We hear people saying they're really stressed out.
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What is stress?
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You've all presumably heard the arguments or the framework
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that stress is this horrible ancient carryover
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from times in which humans were pursued by animals
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or other human predators.
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And that whenever we feel what we call stress
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or feel stressed out that it's just this unfortunate
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invasion of something that we no longer need in modern life
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that this was designed for when we were being attacked
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by bears or tigers or lions or whatever it is.
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And gosh, what an unfortunate thing.
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And we have so many creature comforts nowadays
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but we have not eliminated this stress.
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Almost as if it was like an organ or a system in our body
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that was bad for us that we're stuck with
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just because of the species that we are.
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But first of all, all species experience stress.
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And I think that it's fair to say,
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even though I wasn't there,
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that yes, in fact, throughout our evolutionary history
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we were vulnerable to animal attack
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and other human attacks on a regular basis
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up until a point where we started developing
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weapons and structures and fire and other things
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that allow us to protect ourselves better
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from those animals and invaders of various kinds.
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But it is entirely naive for us to think that
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in ancient times, ancient times being a kind of loose term
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for previous time, medieval times,
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a hundred years ago, a thousand years ago,
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10,000 years ago, of course there were infidelities.
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Partners cheated, people died.
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In fact, before the advent of phones
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which we're gonna talk about today,
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you can imagine that someone might head off on a hunt
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or to go visit a relative and never come back.
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And you would never know why.
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That would be very stressful.
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So there was psychosocial stress.
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There was a stress of losing loved ones.
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There was the stress of cold, of famine.
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There was the stress probably also of just worry.
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This idea that ancient versions of humans
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a thousand years ago, a hundred years ago didn't worry.
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I think that is entirely inconsistent
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with everything we know about the structure
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of the human brain a hundred years, a thousand years ago.
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So all the problems that we're struggling with existed
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for ever.
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It's just that stress at its core is a generalized system.
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It wasn't designed for tigers attacking us
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or people attacking us.
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It's a system to mobilize other systems
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in the brain and body.
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That's what stress really is.
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It's designed to be generic.
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And that's the most important thing
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that I'd like you to understand today is that the system
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that governs what we call stress is generic.
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It wasn't designed for one thing.
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And that gives it a certain advantage
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in taking over the state of our brain and body
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but it also gives you all of us an advantage
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in controlling it because it's based
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on hardwired biological mechanisms.
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And there are hardwired biological mechanisms
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meaning cells and chemicals and pathways
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and tissues that exist in you right now
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that require no neuroplasticity that allow you
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to put a brake on stress.
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And so we're gonna talk about those.
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So you have a system for stress and you have a system
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for de-stress that are baked into you.
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They were genetically encoded and you were born with them
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and you still have them now.
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So if you're alive and listening
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you have the capacity to control your stress.
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And today I'm gonna talk about ways
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that you can control your stress
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not just by doing some offline practice of meditation
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or breath work or something like that, but real time tools.
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Tools that allow you to push back on stress
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when stress hits in real time.
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This is something that my lab works actively on
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in developing and testing these tools
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and evolving these tools.
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And there are other laboratories that do this as well.
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So let's talk about the stress response.
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And by doing that, you will understand exactly
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why the tools I'm gonna give you work.
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For those of you that are saying, wait
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I just want the tools, just give me a summary.
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Trust me, if you understand mechanism
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you are going to be in a far better position
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to incorporate these tools, to teach these tools to others
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and to modify them as your life circumstances change.
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If you'd like the cheat sheet
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or you just want the one page PDF
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eventually we'll get that stuff out to people
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but it's really important
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to understand the underlying mechanism.
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Okay, so what is stress?
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Well, let's just distinguish between stressors
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which are the things that stress us out
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and stress which is the psychological
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and physiological response to stressors.
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I'm mainly gonna talk about stress
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which is your response to things.
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Let's be clear about what we already know
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which is that stressors can be psychological
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or they can be physical.
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If I put you outside on a cold day without a jacket
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for a very long time, that is stressful.
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If I have you prepare for too many exams at once
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and you can't balance it all with your sleep schedule
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and your other needs for comfort and wellbeing
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like food, rest, sleep, and social connection
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that is stressful.
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So stress, and as I mentioned before is generic
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it doesn't distinguish
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between physical and emotional stress.
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So what happens when the stress response hits?
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Let's talk about the immediate
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or what we call the acute stress response.
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We could also think of this as a short-term stress.
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So you have a collection of neurons, they have a name
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it's called the sympathetic chain ganglia
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and it has nothing to do with sympathy.
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Simpa means together.
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And there's a group of neurons
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that start right about at your neck
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and run down to about your navel a little bit lower.
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And those are called the sympathetic chain ganglia.
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You don't need to memorize that name.
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There will not be a quiz
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but it's important to know that in the middle of your body
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you have a chain of neurons
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that when something stresses us out either in our mind
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or because something enters our environment
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and we see something that stresses us out
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that we don't like heights if you're afraid of heights
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somebody you dislike walks into the room, et cetera
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that chain of neurons becomes activated
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like a bunch of dominoes falling all at once.
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It's very fast.
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When that happens, those neurons release a neuromodulator
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neurochemical that I've talked about before
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on this podcast called acetylcholine.
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They release that at various sites within the body.
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Now this is important
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because normally acetylcholine would be used
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to move muscles.
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Actually, every time we move a muscle
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pick up a cup of coffee, write with a pen
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walk down the street, it's spinal neurons
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connecting to muscle and releasing acetylcholine.
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So in the brain, it's involved in focus
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and it muscles is involved in making muscles twitch.
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But if we were stressed
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we wouldn't want all our muscles to contract at once
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because we would just be kind of like paralyzed like this
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in what tonic activation as it's called.
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We wouldn't want that.
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Something called tetanus believe it or not
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because the tetanus toxin will cause that kind of rigor
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of the entire body.
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You do not want that.
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When those neurons are activated acetylcholine is released
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but there are some other neurons
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for the aficionados out there.
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They're called the postganglionic neurons.
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Those ones respond to that acetylcholine
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and then they release epinephrine
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which is the equivalent to adrenaline.
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So we have this system where very fast
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whenever we're stressed, the core of our body
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these neurons down the middle of our body
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release these chemicals.
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And then there's adrenaline or epinephrine
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released at particular organs and acts in particular ways.
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We're going down into the weeds here.
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So just stay with me
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because it's going to make a lot of sense
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and you will appreciate having this knowledge in hand.
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That epinephrine acts in two different ways.
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Some things like the muscles of your legs and your heart
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and other things that need to be active
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when you're stressed, they have a certain kind of receptor
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which is called the beta receptor.
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And that beta receptor responds to epinephrine
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and blood vessels dilate, they get bigger
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and blood rushes in to our legs.
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The heart rate speeds up.
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Lots of things happen that get activated.
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And at the same time that epinephrine activates
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other receptors on certain tissues that we don't need
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the ones involved in digestion, reproduction
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and things of that sort that are luxuries
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for when things are going well
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not things to pay attention to when we're stressed.
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And that binds to other receptors
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that contract the blood vessels.
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So basically the stress response
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this is the key phrase here.
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The stress response A is generic.
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I said that before.
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And B it basically pushes certain systems to be activated
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and other systems to not be activated.
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So the stress response is two-pronged.
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It's a yes for certain things.
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And it's a no you may not right now for other things.
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So that's the key thing to understand
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about the stress response.
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That's why your heart speeds up.
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That's why you feel blood in certain organs
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and tissues of your body, but not in others.
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That's why your throat goes dry
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because it turns out that when you get stressed
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the salivary glands are shut down.
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There's a lot less blood flow to the neurons
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that control salivation.
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And so you're gonna start swallowing.
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You feel like your throat is getting dry.
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There are a lot of different effects.
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I'm not gonna list them all off
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but basically you are activated
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in ways that support you moving.
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So that's the third thing.
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It's first of all, it's generic.
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Second of all, the stress response activates certain things
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and shuts down other features of our body.
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And then it's a sense of agitation
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that makes you wanna move.
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And that's because fundamentally the stress response
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is just this generic thing that says, do something.
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And movement in this case can either be the bias
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to move in terms of action
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or it can be the bias to say something.
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When we are stressed, we are more likely to say something
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that probably we shouldn't say.
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We are more likely to move.
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And if you're trying to suppress movement
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you'll feel that as a tremor.
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You're gonna feel agitated
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and that's because it was designed to move you.
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So this is important because if you wanna control stress
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you need to learn how to work with that agitation.
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I'd like to give you a tool at this point
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because I think if we go any further
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with a lot more science, people are gonna begin to wonder
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if this is just gonna be a kind of standard
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university lecture about the stress response.
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I'm gonna give you more science about the stress response
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but I want to take what we now already know
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about the stress response and use that
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as a framework for thinking about how one might reduce
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or even eliminate the stress response quickly in real time
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should it arise when we don't want it.
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So we're taking the podium
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or we're sitting down at a Zoom call
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and all of a sudden we're feeling flushed.
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We're feeling like our heart is racing.
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We're feeling a little too alert.
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We're feeling a little worked up and we wanna calm down.
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As far as I am aware of the best tools
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to reduce stress quickly, so-called real-time tools
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are going to be tools that have a direct line
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to the so-called autonomic nervous system.
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The autonomic nervous system is a name given
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to the kind of general features of alertness
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or calmness in the body.
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It's typically, it means automatic
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although we do have some control over it.
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Certain what so-called levers or entry points.
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Here's what doesn't work to control stress,
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telling yourself to calm down.
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In fact, that tends to just exacerbate stress.
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Telling someone else to calm down
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also tends to exacerbate their stress.
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If you want to reduce the magnitude of the stress response,
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the best thing you can do
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is activate the other system in the body
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which is designed for calming and relaxation.
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And that system is called the parasympathetic nervous system
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because as I mentioned before,
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the neurons that control stress
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run from about your neck to your navel.
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The parasympathetic neurons, para just means near,
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exist in, they are some of the cranial nerves.
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So it's kind of neck and lower brainstem,
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kind of back of the brain and in the neck
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and in the pelvic area.
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And the parasympathetic nervous system
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is really interesting because especially the cranial nerves,
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the ones that are up in the brainstem and in the neck area,
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those have a direct line to various features of your face.
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In particular, the eyes,
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they control things like eye movements, pupil dilation,
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things of that sort,
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as well as the tongue, the facial muscles, et cetera.
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The parasympathetic nervous system,
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many people don't realize this,
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is the system by which we control the face and the eyes
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and to some extent our airway, the trachea.
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And it's these neurons that reside within the pelvic area.
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Now, the neurons within the pelvic area
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are involved in control of the genitals,
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the bladder and the rectum.
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And those don't have a direct line.
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You don't have a direct way to control those.
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It actually has to go from brain to spinal cord
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and then out to those organs.
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Whereas the parasympathetic nervous system
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has certain entry points or what I'll call levers, right,
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that will allow you to push back on the stress response
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in real time and diminish it
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and feel more relaxed really quickly.
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So I'm going to teach you the first tool now
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so I don't overwhelm you with all this academic knowledge
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without giving you something useful.
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And the tool that, at least to my knowledge,
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is the fastest and most thoroughly grounded
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in physiology and neuroscience
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for calming down in a self-directed way
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is what's called the physiological PSI, S-I-G-H.
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Now, some of you might have heard me talk about this
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on previous podcasts, but I'm going to explain this
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in the context of how respiration in general
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is used to calm us down.
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And it turns out you're all doing this all the time,
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but you are doing it involuntarily.
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And when you stress, you tend to forget
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that you can also activate these systems voluntarily.
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This is an extremely powerful set of techniques
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that we know from scientific studies
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that are being done in my lab,
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Jack Feldman's lab at UCLA, and others now that are very,
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very useful for reducing your stress response in real time.
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And here's how they work.
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These days, there seems to be a lot of interest
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in breath work.
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Breath work typically is when you go and you sit down
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or you lie down and you deliberately breathe
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in a particular way for a series of minutes
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in order to shift your physiology, access some states.
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And it does have some utility that we're going to talk about.
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That is not what I'm talking about now.
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What I'm talking about when I refer to physiological size
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is the very real medical school textbook relationship
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between the brain, the body,
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and the body as it relates to the breathing apparatus,
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meaning the diaphragm and lungs, and the heart.
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Let's take the hallmark of the stress response.
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The heart starts beating faster.
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Blood is shuttled to the big muscles of the body
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to move you away from whatever it is the stressor is
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or just make you feel like you need to move
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or talk, your face goes flushed, et cetera.
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Heart rate, many of us feel is involuntary,
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just kind of functions whether or not we're moving fast
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or moving slow.
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If you think about it, it's not really purely autonomic
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because you can speed up your heart rate by running
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or you can slow it down by slowing down by your run.
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You can move to a walk or lie down,
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but that's indirect control.
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There is, however, a way in which you can breathe
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that directly controls your heart rate
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through the interactions between the sympathetic
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and the parasympathetic nervous system.
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Here's how it works.
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When you inhale, so whether or not it's through the nose
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or through the mouth, this skeletal muscle
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that's inside your body called the diaphragm, it moves down.
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And that's because the lungs expand,
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the diaphragm moves down.
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Your heart actually gets a little bit bigger
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in that expanded space.
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There's more space for the heart.
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So I'm not talking about your emotional heart
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getting bigger, I'm talking about your actual
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physical heart getting a little bit bigger.
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The volume grows.
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And as a consequence, whatever blood is in there
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is now at a lower volume or moving a little bit more slowly
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in that larger volume than it was before you inhaled.
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Okay, so more space, heart gets bigger,
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blood moves more slowly, and there's a little group
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of neurons called the sinoatrial node in the heart
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that registers, believe it or not, those neurons
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pay attention to the rate of blood flow through the heart
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and send a signal up to the brain
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that blood is moving more slowly through the heart.
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The brain then sends a signal back to the heart
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to speed the heart up.
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So what this means is if you want your heart to beat faster,
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inhale longer, inhale more vigorously than your exhales.
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Now, there are a variety of ways that one could do that,
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but it doesn't matter if it's through the nose
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or through the mouth.
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If your inhales are longer than your exhales,
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you're speeding up your heart.
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If your inhales are more vigorous,
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so even if your inhales are shorter than your exhales,
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you are speeding up your heart rate.
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Now, the opposite is also true.
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If you want to slow your heart rate down,
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so stress response hits,
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you want to slow your heart rate down,
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what you want to do is again capitalize on this relationship
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between the body, meaning the diaphragm
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in the heart and the brain.
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Here's how it works.
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When you exhale, the diaphragm moves up,
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which makes the heart a little bit smaller.
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It actually gets a little more compact.
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Blood flows more quickly through that compact space,
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sort of like it's just a pipe getting smaller.
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The sinoatrial node registers
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that blood is going more quickly,
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sends a signal up to the brain,
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and the parasympathetic nervous system,
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some neurons in your brainstem,
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send a signal back to the heart to slow the heart down.
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So if you want to calm down quickly,
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you need to make your exhales longer
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and or more vigorous than your inhales.
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Now, the reason this is so attractive
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as a tool for controlling stress
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is that it works in real time.
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This doesn't involve a practice that you have to go
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and sit there and do anything separate from life.
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And we are going to get to emotion.
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Emotions and stress happen in real time.
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And so while it's wonderful to have a breathwork practice
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or to have the opportunity to get a massage
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or sit in a sauna or do whatever it is that you do
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in order to set your stress controls
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in the right direction,
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having tools that you can reach to in real time
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that require no learning,
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00:29:24.360
I mean, I had to teach it to you, you had to learn that,
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but it doesn't require any plasticity
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to activate these pathways.
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So if you're feeling stressed,
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you still need to inhale, of course,
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but you need to lengthen your exhales.
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Now, there's a tool that capitalizes on this
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in a kind of unique way, a kind of a twist,
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which is the physiological psi.
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The physiological psi was discovered in the 30s.
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It's now been explored at the neurobiological level
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and mechanistically in far more detail
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00:29:52.700
by Jack Feldman's lab at UCLA,
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also Mark Krasnow's lab at Stanford.
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And the physiological psi is something
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that humans and animals do
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anytime they are about to fall asleep.
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You also do it throughout sleep from time to time
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when carbon dioxide, which we'll talk about in a moment,
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builds up too much in your system.
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And the physiological psi is something
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that people naturally start doing
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when they've been crying
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and they're trying to recover some air or calm down,
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when they've been sobbing very hard,
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or when they are in claustrophobic environments.
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However, the amazing thing about this thing
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that we call the diaphragm, the skeletal muscle,
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is that it's an internal organ
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that you can control voluntarily,
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unlike your spleen or your heart or your pancreas,
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where you can't just say,
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oh, I want to make my pancreas
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turn out a little more insulin right now.
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I'm just going to do that with my mind directly.
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You can't do that.
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You could do that by smelling
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a really good donut or something,
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but you can't just do it directly.
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You can move your diaphragm intentionally, right?
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You can do it anytime you want,
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and it'll run in the background
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if you're not thinking about it.
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So this incredible pathway that goes from brain to diaphragm
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through what's called the phrenic nerve,
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P-H-R-E-N-I-C, phrenic.
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The phrenic nerve innervates the diaphragm.
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You can control anytime you want.
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You can double up your inhales or triple up your inhales.
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You can exhale more than your inhales,
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whatever you want to do.
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It's such an incredible organ.
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And the physiological side
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is something that we do spontaneously,
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but when you're feeling stressed,
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you can do a double inhale,
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nnnn, nnnn, nnnn, nnnn, nnnn, nnnn, nnnn, nnnn, nnnn,
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long exhale.
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Now, I just told you a minute ago
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that if you inhale more than you exhale,
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you're going to speed the heart rate up,
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which would promote more stress and activation.
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Now I'm telling you to do a double inhale exhale
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in order to calm down.
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And the reason is the double inhale exhale,
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which is the physiological side,
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00:31:46.320
takes advantage of the fact that when we do a double inhale,
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even if the second inhale is sneaking in
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just a tiny bit more air,
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cause it's kind of hard to get too deep inhales back to back
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you do big, deep inhale and then another little one
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sneaking it in.
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The little sacs in your lungs, the avioli of the lungs,
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your lungs aren't just two big bags,
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but you've got millions of little sacs
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throughout the lungs that actually make the surface area
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of your lungs as big as a tennis court.
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It's amazing if we were to just spread that out.
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Those tend to collapse as we get stressed
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and carbon dioxide builds up in our bloodstream.
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And that's one of the reasons we feel agitated as well.
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So, and it makes us very jittery.
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I mean, there's some other effects of carbon dioxide
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I don't want to get into,
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but when you do the double inhale exhale,
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the double inhale reinflates those little sacs of the lungs.
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And then when you do the long exhale,
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that long exhale is now much more effective
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at ridding your body and bloodstream of carbon dioxide,
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which relaxes you very quickly.
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My lab in collaboration with David Spiegel's lab,
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David's the associate chair of psychiatry at Stanford
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are doing a study right now,
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exploring how physiological size
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and other patterns of breathing done deliberately
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can modulate the stress response
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and other things related to emotionality.
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Those work are ongoing.
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I want to be clear, those studies aren't done,
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but it's very clear from work in our labs,
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from working with Jack Feldman's lab and others,
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that the physiological sigh is the fastest hardwired way
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for us to eliminate this stressful response in our body
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quickly in real time.
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And so I'm excited to give you this tool
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00:33:22.300
because I think most people have heard
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that mindfulness and meditation is good,
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00:33:26.240
exercise is good for us,
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we all need to be getting enough sleep, et cetera,
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00:33:29.560
but life happens.
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And when you find yourself in a position
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where you are more alert and activated
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than you would like to be,
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00:33:36.240
regardless of whether or not the stressor
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is relationship-based or it's financial
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or it's physical or anything like that,
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you can look to the physiological side
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because it bypasses a very important feature
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of how we function,
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which is that it's very hard to control the mind
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with the mind,
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especially when we are in heightened states of activation.
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When we are very alert or very sleepy,
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it is very hard to use these so-called top-down mechanisms
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of intention and gratitude and all these things
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that are really powerful tools
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when we are not super activated and stressed
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or not super tired.
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But when we are anywhere in the range
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of very alert and stressed to very sleepy,
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physiological sides are a powerful way
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of bringing our level of so-called autonomic activation,
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which just means our level of alertness down.
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And so whether or not it's in line at the bank
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or whether or not you're wearing a mask nowadays
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or you're not, whatever the conditions may be
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where you're at and your needs,
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00:34:37.300
when you're feeling stressed,
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the physiological side done just one to three times,
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so it'd be double inhale, exhale,
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double inhale, exhale, maybe just two times,
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will bring down your level of stress very, very fast.
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And as far as I know,
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it's the fastest way to accomplish that.
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An important note about the physiological side
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or exhale emphasized breathing
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for lowering the stress response, many people worry
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that their heart rate does not come down fast enough.
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I want to tell you,
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you do not want your heart rate to reduce very fast.
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There's actually something called the vasovagal response
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where people will stand up
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or they'll get up in the middle of the night
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to use the bathroom and then all of a sudden they'll collapse,
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they'll faint.
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That's because the heart rate was reduced too much.
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Some people will see blood
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or they'll see something really troubling and stressful
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and they'll pass out.
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That's an over-activation
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or an acceleration of the calming response.
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They're not so stressed
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that they kind of fall off the cliff of stress.
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They get so stressed that the rebound mechanism
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for calming themselves down goes too high, too fast.
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They calm down too fast and they collapse and faint.
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And so be aware
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that if you're going to use the physiological side
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or exhale emphasize breathing to calm down,
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that your heart rate will take about 20 to 30 seconds
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to come down to baseline.
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And you may need to repeat
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the physiological side a few times.
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So that's an important note
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about the use of breathing to control levels of stress.
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The other thing is that
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when you decide to look to the body to control the mind,
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it does something else that's very powerful.
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When you are stressed in your mind and body,
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so you're feeling really agitated, activated and worried
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and you use a tool like the physiological sigh
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or exhale emphasize breathing,
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00:36:28.060
you will notice that then your brain and your mind
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becomes more available
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for controlling the stress response and reacting to it,
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which is great because the sweet spot in life is to be,
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00:36:38.620
provided you're not trying to sleep,
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is to be alert and calm.
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And so that's the idea is to be alert and calm
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and to bring you back into that sort of plane of alertness.
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00:36:48.500
For those of you that have trouble sleeping
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or just relaxing through the day,
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00:36:52.460
the physiological side can be repeated
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for 10, 15 cycles if you like.
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Some people find that it actually puts them to sleep.
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So if they lie down and they're reading
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and they do too many of these,
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that actually can put them to sleep.
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And what you'll find is that most breath work protocols,
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the kind of stuff that's done away from real life
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that you set aside time
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and decide to do quote unquote breath work,
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most of that works such that if you're doing inhales
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that are longer and more vigorous than exhales,
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it tends to be activating and alert you.
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And if you're doing exhales that are longer
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or more vigorous than the inhales,
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it tends to put you to sleep.
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And many of the protocols that are out there
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from laboratories and that populate the internet
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and wellness sites and whatnot,
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if it's exhale-emphasized breathing,
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oftentimes has been used as a tool
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for trying to teach people to fall asleep.
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Physiological side is a little different.
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It's designed to be used in real time.
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Just think of it as just kind of in your kit
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of things that you can do as life happens
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and as you need to react to life.
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A note about nasal versus mouth breathing.
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There's a plethora of information out there now
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because of James Nestor's book,
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Breath, the New Science of a Lost Art,
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which came out this last year, excellent book,
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as well as Jaws, which is from Sandra Kahn,
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Paul Ehrlich with a forward by Jared Diamond
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and Robert Sapolsky.
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So a collection of people from Stanford,
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Jared Diamond's not at Stanford, but the rest are.
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And some heavy hitters on that book,
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which is about the benefits of nasal breathing.
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And in many cases, nasal breathing is more advantageous
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than mouth breathing for all sorts of things,
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cosmetic features of the face, especially in kids,
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warding off infection, et cetera.
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With the physiological side, the best way to do it
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would be double inhale through the nose,
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exhale through the mouth.
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But if you can't and you can only do that
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through your mouth, just do it through your mouth.
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If you want to do all through your nose,
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do it through your nose.
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This anchors back to some underlying neurology
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or neuroscience.
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So for those of you that want to know,
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you have two breathing centers,
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one that's involved in rhythmic breathing
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for inhales followed by exhales,
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followed by inhales, followed by exhales.
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The so-called pre-Botzinger nucleus
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named after a bottle of wine
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and discovered by Jack Feldman at UCLA.
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And a nearby nucleus called the parafacial nucleus
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also discovered by Jack Feldman at UCLA.
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And the parafacial nucleus is involved
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in anytime you double up the inhales
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or double up the exhales.
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It was designed so that you could breathe
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while you're speaking, because you can't always go
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inhale, exhale, inhale, exhale when you're speaking.
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So I tell you this not to overwhelm you with knowledge,
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but just know that when you double up your inhales
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or you double up your exhales,
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you are activating this parafacial nucleus
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and it has other cool effects
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because it's located near the neurons
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that control the face.
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It also has a tendency to relax the jaw.
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There's some interplay between the neurons
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that control the speaking stuff
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and the stuff for your tongue.
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So all of a sudden, when we do this physiological side,
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we tap into neural circuitry
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that allows us to speak more clearly,
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to control the muscles of the face and jaw.
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Maybe that means not saying certain things
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when we're stressed and just generally to relax.
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And so this brings us back to the neuroscience
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of this parasympathetic nervous system,
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this calming system that's been genetically encoded into us
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that we all have regardless of who our parents are,
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which is that the neurons that control all this stuff,
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the face, the eyes, et cetera, are all working together.
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And that's why when we get stressed,
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it's hard for us to speak or we tend to jitter
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and these kinds of things,
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just like all the neurons that cause stress
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in the center of the spinal cord are working together
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to get our body activated.
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Okay, a lot of science today.
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You've now got the physiological sigh as a tool.
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You know that exhale-emphasized breathing
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will slow your heart down
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and inhale-emphasized breathing will speed your heart up.
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So let's think about something now.
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Let's think about stress
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from not whether or not it's acute or chronic,
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whether or not it's good for us or bad for us,
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but on three different timescales,
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because then we can arrive at what this is all about
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as it relates to emotions,
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because trust me, this has everything to do with emotions
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and whether or not you're functioning well emotionally
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or you're not functioning well emotionally,
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whether or not you're coping or not coping.
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So those are typically psychological terms
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and psychological discussions.
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We are entering this through the portal of physiology,
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the stuff of medical textbooks,
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and we will arrive at the psychology soon,
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but I really want you to understand the difference
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between the three kinds of stress
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on three different timescales,
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short-term, medium-term, and long-term,
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and what it's good for and what it's bad for.
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I think we've all heard that stress is bad for us.
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We've seen these pictures intended to frighten us,
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and indeed they are frightening.
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You see the nice really plump brain on the left.
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It says healthy or control,
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and then you see the brain that says stressed above it
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on the right, and it's like withered,
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or we see that the hippocampus,
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an area involved in memory is smaller,
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people that are stressed.
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We see that the Alzheimer's brain is made worse by stress,
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that people who have a predisposition of schizophrenia
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when they get stressed,
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higher incidence of schizophrenic episodes.
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You hear that addicts will relapse when they're stressed.
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I mean, okay, we get it, and it's very important,
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but I think we've all heard now so many times
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that stress is bad, but in that conversation,
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unfortunately it's eclipsed some of the really positive
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things that stress does for us in the short term.
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So stress can be short-term, medium-term, or long-term.
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Long-term stress is indeed bad
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for all the reasons I just mentioned and many others,
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but what's never actually been discussed
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is what stress is so terrific for,
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positive for in the short term,
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and I think we tend to overlook the important question,
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which is what is short-term and what is long-term?
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No one ever bothers to tell us what is chronic,
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what is acute, right?
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Is it five minutes?
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Is it five days?
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Is it for the duration of final exams
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or is it for the duration of a senior thesis in college?
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No one actually draws boundaries around this stuff
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or even general guidelines,
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and so it's become a bit of a mess, frankly,
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to try and decipher this whole space around stress,
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so I'm going to try and clean some of this up for you
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based on what we know from the scientific data.
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First of all, acute stress.
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When the stress response hits,
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that is good for your immune system.
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I know that might be a tough pill to swallow,
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but it's absolutely true.
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In fact, stress often comes in the form
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of bacterial or viral infection,
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and the stress response is in part organized
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to combat bacterial and viral infection.
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There are pathways from the same brain centers
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that activate these neurons in your spinal cord
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to make you feel like you want to move.
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There are other neurons in your brain
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to activate things like your spleen,
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which will deploy killer cells to go out and scavenge
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for incoming bacteria and viruses
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and try and eat them up and kill them,
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so short-term stress and the release of adrenaline
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in particular or epinephrine,
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same thing, adrenaline epinephrine,
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is good for combating infection,
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and this to me is just not discussed enough,
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so that's why I'm discussing it here,
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and it relates to a particular tool
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that many of you ask about,
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but I don't often get the opportunity to talk about
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in such an appropriate context.
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It's not that it's ever inappropriate to talk about,
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but what I'm about to talk about now
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is the use of, again, respiration, breathing,
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to somewhat artificially activate the stress response,
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and that will accomplish two things, okay?
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I'll return to medium and long-term stress,
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but I want to say short-term stress is good
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because the dilation of the pupils,
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the changes in the optics of the eyes,
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the quickening of the heart rate,
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the sharpening of your cognition,
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and in fact, that short-term stress
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brings certain elements of the brain online
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that allow you to focus.
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Now, it narrows your focus.
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You're not good at seeing the so-called big picture,
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but it narrows your focus.
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It allows you to do these,
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what I call duration path outcome types of analysis.
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It allows you to evaluate your environment,
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evaluate what you need to do.
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It primes your whole system for better cognition.
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It primes your immune system to combat infection,
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and that all makes sense when you think about the fact
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that famine, thirst, bacterial infections,
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viral infections, invaders,
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all of this stuff liberates a response in the body
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that's designed to get you to fight back
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against whatever stressor that happens to be,
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psychological, physical, bacterial, viral.
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Again, the stress response is generic.
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The tool takes advantage of the fact
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that when adrenaline is released in the body
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from the adrenals,
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it has the effect of also liberating
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a lot of these killer cells from the immune organs,
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in particular from the spleen, but from elsewhere as well,
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and interactions with the lymphatic system
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that combat infection.
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The way this works in the real world
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is best captured by a study that can be mapped back
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to so-called Wim Hof breathing.
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Now, Wim Hof breathing is so named after
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the so-called Iceman Wim Hof.
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Wim, of course, being this Dutch,
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I think he is self-titled Daredevil,
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and indeed he has many, many Guinness Book of World Records
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for things like swimming under icebergs,
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and going up Kilimanjaro in his shorts,
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and crossing the desert without water, et cetera,
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things that are quite dangerous
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if you don't know what you're doing.
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And Wim obviously survived, or I'm telling you he survived.
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But there are two components to a sort of breathing protocol
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that he developed that was based also
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on what's called TUMO breathing, T-U-M-M-O.
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So before Wim, there was TUMO breathing.
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And many people call this now super oxygenation breathing,
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although the breath work aficionados will probably say,
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well, it's not super oxygenation
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because you're also blowing off a lot of carbon dioxide.
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What I'm talking about here,
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regardless of whether or not it's called Wim Hof, TUMO,
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or super oxygenation is rapid deliberate breathing.
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So it's deliberate hyperventilation.
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Why would somebody want to do this?
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Well, deliberate hyperventilation done for maybe 25 cycles.
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So inhale, exhale, inhale, exhale, inhale, exhale.
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Typically it's done in through the nose,
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out through the mouth,
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although sometimes it's just through the mouth.
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If you do that for 15 breaths, 20 breaths, 25 breaths,
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you will feel very alert.
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People who have anxiety will feel anxious.
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They might even have an anxiety attack.
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However, we need to ask why that kind of breathing
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feels that way.
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And it's because that pattern of breathing,
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rapid movements of the diaphragm
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will liberate adrenaline from the adrenals.
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So it's the release of adrenaline.
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I mentioned that Wim is also called the Iceman.
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Well, that's because he actually discovered
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this pattern of breathing somewhat.
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And again, it maps back to Tummo breathing
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by going into cold water.
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When you go into cold water, that too is a stressor
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and you liberate adrenaline in response to cold water.
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So if you get into an ice bath or a cold shower,
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you will immediately release adrenaline from your adrenals.
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Now, there are all sorts of things related to this
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about psychological control and stress thresholds
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that we'll talk about.
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But I really want people to understand
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that when adrenaline is released in the body,
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you are in a better position to combat infections.
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And so whether or not you breathe very quickly
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in these cycles of 25 breaths,
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and regardless of what you call it, doesn't matter,
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adrenaline is released.
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If you take a cold shower, adrenaline is released.
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If you go into an ice bath deliberately,
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and even if you do it non-deliberately,
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adrenaline is released.
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You are mimicking the stress response.
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And that adrenaline serves to suppress or combat
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incoming infections.
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And this was beautifully shown in a study
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that was published in a very fine journal,
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The Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences
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for the US.
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It's literally called
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Proceedings of the National Academy of USA
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to distinguish it from other proceedings
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of other national academies in other countries.
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The way the experiment went is that people were injected
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with endotoxin, or in some cases,
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they were injected with a bacterial wall
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that mimics infection.
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It gives you a fever.
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It makes you feel nauseous.
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It makes you feel sick.
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It is not pleasant.
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Half of the people did a particular pattern of breathing
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that looked very much like the pattern of breathing
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I described a moment ago of doing 25 deep inhales
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and exhales, followed by an exhale holding their breath,
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then repeating, 25 inhales, exhales holding their breath.
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So this would look something like this,
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or if you're listening, it sounds like,
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ah, ah, ah.
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25, 30 times, you'll start feeling heated up.
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You'll start feeling the adrenaline response.
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You're liberating adrenaline in your body.
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Then exhale, hold your breath for 15 seconds,
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and then repeat.
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And then typically after doing three or four rounds of that,
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they would inhale very deeply and hold their breath.
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Now I want to emphasize,
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never, ever, ever do this anywhere near water.
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People have passed out so-called shallow water breath out.
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People have died.
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Don't do it in the bathtub, do it in the hot tub.
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Don't do it before swimming.
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Please don't do it anywhere near water.
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Please don't do it at all
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unless you get clearance to do it from your doctor,
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because there are some pulmonary effects and whatnot.
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And the breath holds should definitely not be done
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by anyone that has glaucoma or pressure concerns
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for the eyes.
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But these repeated cycles of breathing
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that liberate adrenaline allowed the group
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that did that protocol to essentially experience
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zero symptoms from the injection of this E. coli,
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which is remarkable.
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They had much reduced or no symptoms.
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They didn't feel feverish.
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They didn't feel sick.
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They weren't vomiting, no diarrhea, which is remarkable,
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but makes total sense when you think about the fact
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that the short-term stress response
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that what's typically called the acute stress response
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is designed to combat all stressors.
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In fact, were you to cut yourself very deeply
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while out on a hike in the woods.
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The other thing that would happen
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is that there would be a rapid inflammation response.
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And we always hear inflammation is bad.
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Inflammation gives us Alzheimer's.
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Inflammation is the worst thing.
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But the swelling is associated,
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the inflammation is associated with the recruitment
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of things like macrophages or microglia,
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if it's a neural tissue, cells in our brain and body
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whose job is to act like little ambulances
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and rush to that site and clean it up.
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And indeed the inflammation response looks horrible.
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It sounds horrible, but it's a great thing in the short term
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you want to have that tissue marked as in trouble
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and you want the body and brain to react to it.
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So if you're getting peaks in stress from time to time
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throughout your day or throughout your week,
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you are in a better position to combat infection.
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You are in a better position to heal your wounds,
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physical wounds.
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Many great things happen in the stress response.
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Now, of course the stress response
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isn't always super intense.
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Sometimes it's milder.
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Sometimes it allows us to just focus on something
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as we have a deadline that can feel stressful.
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But that's one of the reasons
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you procrastinators out there,
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people always ask me what can be done for procrastination?
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What can be done for procrastination
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is you can understand what's happening,
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which is that you are self-imposing stress
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because stress acts like a drug.
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It is a powerful nootropic.
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I get asked about nootropics.
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The most powerful nootropic or smart drug is stress.
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It's the concern of failure.
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It's the desire to do well.
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It's the impending deadline.
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It's the, oh my gosh, I have to do this thing now
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or I'm going to fail.
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That is the best nootropic you will ever find.
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That combined with a good night's sleep,
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which we'll talk about,
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but we spend a whole month on sleep
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so I don't want to backtrack too much, okay?
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So short-term stress, great.
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The key is to be able to turn the stress response off
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when you're done, when you don't want that.
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In fact, let's just really tamp down the relationship
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between the short-term or acute stress response
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and infection.
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Many of us are familiar with the experience
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of work, work, work, work, work,
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or taking care of a loved one,
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or stress, stress, stress, stress,
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then we finally relax.
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Maybe we even go on vacation.
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Like, oh, now I'm finally going to get the break
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and then we get sick.
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And that's because the adrenaline response crashed
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and your immune system crashed with it.
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So please understand this.
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Now, many of you might say, well, how long?
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Is it two hours?
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Is it three hours?
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A lot of you out there that really like specificity,
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it will vary for everybody.
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I would just kind of use a rule of thumb.
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When you are no longer able to achieve good sleep,
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what good sleep means to you,
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and please see the episodes on sleep
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00:53:38.000
if you want more about tools to sleep.
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When you are no longer able to achieve good sleep,
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you are now moving from acute stress to chronic stress.
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You need to be able to turn the stress response off.
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If I have one wish,
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well, I have many wishes for this lifetime,
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but if I have one wish today that I hope will permeate
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and spread out there is this idea that we need
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from a young age, but even as adults and forever,
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we need to learn how to turn off our stress response.
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Physiological sigh is one.
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If we're going to activate our stress response intentionally
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by ice baths, cold showers,
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cyclic hyperoxygenated breathing,
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AKA Tummo breathing or Wim Hof breathing,
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we also need to learn how to press the brake, okay?
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So let's think about the stress system.
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It knows how to activate itself.
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Now we're talking about a way of deliberately activating
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your stress system in order to combat infection.
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I do this from time to time.
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I might feel a tickle in my throat
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or like I'm getting kind of run down.
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I will do this kind of breathing, I do.
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I will take 25 or 30 breaths, exhale, hold my breath.
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25, 30 breaths again, exhale,
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hold my breath for about 15 seconds.
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25, 30 breaths again, exhale,
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hold my breath for 25 or 30 seconds,
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then a big inhale and I hold my breath
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until I feel the impulse to breathe.
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Again, I feel it safe for me.
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I've run it by my doctor, so it's fine.
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You should not do this unless it's right for you,
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but I do this.
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Some people like the ice bath.
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I rarely do the ice bath.
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Some people like cold showers.
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I like hot showers.
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So I take hot showers, but I do this kind of breathing.
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Again, they are all having more or less the same effect
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of increasing adrenaline
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which allows you to combat the infection
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because you're activating the immune response.
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Okay, so now let's talk about medium-term stress.
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Medium-term stress is going to be stress
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that lasts anywhere from several days to several weeks.
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We might think of that as long-term stress.
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There are times in life
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where we are just dealing with a lot.
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This particular quarter, I happen to be directing a course.
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I'm doing the lab, I'm doing this.
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I enjoy all these things immensely,
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but I'm kind of near my threshold.
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I'm near the point where any additional thing,
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like I couldn't log onto a website the other day
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and it felt like the most intense thing in the world
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at that moment and I kind of laughed at myself.
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Fortunately, I caught it,
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but that typically wouldn't be my response
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under conditions where I wasn't pushed to threshold.
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What is this medium-term stress?
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What is stress threshold?
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Well, stress threshold is actually our ability
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to cognitively regulate what's going on in our body.
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So we've all hear so much about
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we need to unify our mind and body.
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We need to be at one with our mind and body
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or now I realize I'm kind of poking fun
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at some of the new agey language.
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But the reason I poke fun is not because
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I don't think it has value, but it has no specificity.
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What does that mean?
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I mean, I think I'm always in my body.
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I've never fortunately looked across the room
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and seen my arm over there or my leg over there.
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I'm connected to my body.
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There actually is a syndrome
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where people feel disconnected from their limbs.
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This is a real clinical condition.
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These people actually will seek out amputation.
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They will try and convince doctors
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to amputate certain portions of their body.
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It's a really terrible thing for people
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that have and it relates to a change in central maps
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in the brain, believe it or not.
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Most of us want to keep our limbs,
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whichever ones we happen to have.
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And most of us feel one in mind and body
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so much so that when stress hits,
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we feel it in our mind and body.
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A lot of stress inoculation,
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a lot of managing medium-term stress
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on the timescale of weeks or maybe even a couple months.
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So we're not talking about years of stress.
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A lot of that has to do with raising our stress threshold.
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It's about capacity.
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And there are very simple tools,
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excellent tools that will allow us
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to modulate our capacity for stress.
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And they look a lot like the tools I just described.
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They involve placing oneself deliberately
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into a situation where our adrenaline is increased somewhat,
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not to the extreme.
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And then when we feel flooded with adrenaline
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and normally we would panic,
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it's about cognitively, mentally, emotionally,
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calming ourselves and being comfortable
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with that response in our body.
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So unlike trying to unify the mind and body
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and make it all calm or make it all alert,
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this is about dissociating mind and body in a healthy way.
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And what would this look like?
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Well, this is something I actually do as a practice
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because I mentioned before,
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you can use physiological size.
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In real time, you can use
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the cyclic hyperoxygenation breathing to combat infection
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if you're feeling kind of run down.
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And there's also a way in which you can use things
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like cold showers or if you exercise
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and you bring your heart rate up very high,
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you kind of go into that high intensity realm
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where your heart is beating a little bit harder
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than you're comfortable with.
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And that you're just, you feel,
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some people think it's lactic acid.
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No one can agree on this, what the burn is,
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whether it's lactic acid or it's buildup of hydrogen
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or whatever.
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I don't want to get into that,
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but we're all familiar with the intense feeling
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of your muscles kind of burning
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because you're working very hard physically.
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The key in those moments is to learn to relax the mind
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while the body is very activated.
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And what that tends to do,
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there's a limited amount of research on this,
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but what that tends to do is it tends to create a situation
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where what once felt like a lot feels manageable.
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You've raised your stress threshold or your stress capacity.
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One way that you can do this, and this is kind of fun,
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if it's approved by your physician
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and you're able to do this,
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you can bring your heart rate up.
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You could do this through an ice bath
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if that's your thing or a cold shower
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or cyclic oxygenation breathing,
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or you could sprint or you could go hard on the bike,
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whatever it is that brings your heart rate up.
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And then what you want to do
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is you want to actually try and calm the mind
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while your body is in this heightened state of activation.
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And the best way that I'm aware to do that,
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again, goes back to physiology, not psychology.
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When we are stressed, our pupils dilate.
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The effect of that pupil dilation
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is to create tunnel vision.
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It literally narrows our view of the visual world.
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We no longer see in panorama.
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And there's some other effects as well,
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but that's because the visual system
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through this cranial nerve system that I described before
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is tethered and is part of this autonomic nervous system.
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By deliberately dilating your gaze,
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meaning not moving your head and eyes around,
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but by deliberately going from tunnel vision
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to broader panoramic vision,
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literally seeing more of your environment all at once,
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you don't have to do what I'm doing,
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which is not blinking, you're welcome to blink,
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but it means deliberately dilating your gaze
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so that you can see yourself in the environment you're in.
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It creates a calming effect on the mind
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because it releases a particular circuit in the brainstem
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that's associated with alertness, AKA stress.
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Now, this is very powerful.
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If you're running, for instance,
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and you're at max capacity or close to it,
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or you're kind of hitting like 80, 90% of maximum
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on the bike and you dilate your gaze,
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what you'll find is the mind can relax
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while the body is in full output.
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And this relates to work that in various communities,
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people are working with this in the sports community,
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military communities, et cetera,
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but it's a form, not really of stress inoculation,
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it's more about raising stress threshold
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so that the body is going to continue to be
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in a high alertness, high reactivity mode, high output,
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but the mind is calm.
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And so this isn't about unifying mind and body,
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this is actually about using body
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to bring up your level of activation,
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then dissociating,
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not the clinical dissociation kind of disorders,
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but dissociating the mental or emotional response
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from what's going on in your body.
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And over time, so if you do this a couple of times,
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you don't have to do this every workout,
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but if you do this maybe once a week or so,
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you start being comfortable
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at these higher activation states.
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What once felt overwhelming and like a lot of work
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now is manageable, it feels tolerable.
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So that's for navigating medium term stress.
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Now there are other tools as well,
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but we don't want to go over 90 minutes
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because 90 minutes is one ultradian cycle.
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I always try and keep these podcasts
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to one ultradian cycle in case you haven't noticed
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so you can derive maximum benefit from them
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based on ultradian cycle principles of learning.
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So I don't want to go into every little bit of this
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and I want to make sure we get to emotions,
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but I want to emphasize that these medium term stressors
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of, oh, it has been a hard month or hard week
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or Stanford's on the quarter system,
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so 10 weeks or semester,
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that becomes more manageable when we train ourselves
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to be calm of mind when our body is activated.
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And if you haven't noticed,
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most of the tools I'm describing today
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are nothing like the sort of, okay, sit and do meditation.
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I'm not, I'm actively avoiding saying the words NSDR,
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non-sleep deep rest.
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I talked a lot about those tools
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during the months on sleep and neuroplasticity.
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And of course they're wonderful for replenishing
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your ability to lean into effort, to learn, to focus.
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Please do try and check out NSDR protocol,
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see if they're right for you.
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The margins for safety I think are enormous.
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You're basically just listening to a script.
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We have links to them in previous captions.
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I've talked to them on various podcasts before.
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We can provide them again.
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But today I'm really talking about tools
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so that you can learn to dance with stress,
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to in the short term, reduce that stress response
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a little bit if you feel it's too uncomfortable.
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In the medium term, to be comfortable
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at these heightened levels of activation
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because life is going to continue to come at you.
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We can't pick the stressors,
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but we need to be able to function at a higher capacity
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often.
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And then there's long-term stress.
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Now long-term stress is bad.
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You do not want adrenaline up in your system
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for a very long time.
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In fact, ideally you would have your stress go up
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various times throughout the day,
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but it would never stay elevated
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and it would never prevent you
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from getting a good night's sleep.
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Now that isn't realistic, okay?
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I would say for me, three, four nights out of the month,
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no matter what I do, I take on too much
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or something happens and life is life
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and I don't get the best night's sleep
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that I would like to get.
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For many of you, it's 30 nights per month.
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For some of you, it's zero nights per month
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and congratulations to you zero nights per month people.
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If you are managing your sleep really well every night,
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that is fantastic.
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You really want to be able to fall asleep at night,
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stay asleep for most of the night
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and if you get up, go back to sleep
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for as long as you need to in order to feel rested.
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That's what I define as a healthy relationship to sleep.
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Check out the episodes on sleep
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if you want tools to be able to accomplish that.
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We can all accomplish that, it can be done
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and there are tools to do it, zero cost tools.
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Okay, so let's talk about long-term stress.
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Earlier I talked about how breathing
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can modulate heart rate through this loop
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that includes the brain
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and the parasympathetic nervous system.
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I don't think I mentioned this
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and I want to make sure that I mentioned
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that breathing controlling heart rate
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through the sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous system
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is the basis of what's called HRV, heart rate variability.
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And we know that heart rate variability is good.
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You don't want your heart rate chronically elevated
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or chronically low.
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A lot of people think,
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oh, I want a really nice low heart rate
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and indeed if you're in shape,
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the stroke volume of your heart will be greater
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and you can have a nice slow heart rate.
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Years ago when I was running regularly,
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I think my heart rate was down to like 50 or 60
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or something like that.
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That's great but, and now it's higher than that
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because I'm running a little bit less
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but everyone needs to determine what's right for them
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but you don't really want your heart rate
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to be chronically low or chronically high, both are bad.
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We know that chronic stress, elevated stress
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and especially in the so-called type A personalities
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creates heart disease, leading killer
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for in most every country, but in particular in the US
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because of the way that adrenaline
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impacts those blood vessels are constricting
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and some and dilating others.
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It's just that kind of hypertension,
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chronic hypertension is just bad.
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And so chronic stress truly is bad.
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I want to really make that clear
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because I emphasized a lot of what some
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of the positive effects of stress
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but you want to be able to tamp down your stress
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in real time.
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You also want to be able to modulate your stress
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and your emotional relationship to stress
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in the body in the medium term
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but by no means do you want to be stressed out
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all the time chronically for months and months
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and months and years on end.
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The best tools, the best mechanisms that we know
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to modulate long-term stress
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might surprise you a little bit.
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First of all, there are going to be the things
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that don't surprise you, which is everyone knows
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getting regular exercise, getting good sleep,
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using real-time tools to try and tamp down
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the stress response, et cetera.
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That's all going to be really useful.
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The data really point to the fact that social connection
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and certain types of social connection in particular
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are what are going to mitigate or reduce long-term stress.
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And this is a particularly important issue nowadays
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where we have all these proxies or surrogates
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for social connection.
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We're online and texting with people a lot
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so we can feel connected.
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People are like the plane's about to take off
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and everyone's texting each other.
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Whether or not they have fear of flying or not,
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they're like, okay, see you, love you, hate you,
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whatever it is that they're trying to communicate to people.
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Then plane lands, everyone phones out,
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see you, love you, hate you.
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Let's hope it's fewer hate yous.
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But everyone has this kind of need to stay connected
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to one another.
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Humans are incredibly social creatures.
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Now, there is a way to look at this whole business
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of social connection,
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not from just the kind of wishy-washy, new agey perspective.
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And I want to point out that sometimes I'll say
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wishy-washy, new agey.
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I have nothing against that.
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My goal here is always to put scientific data
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and some neurochemistry on things
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so that for those of you that are into
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wishy-washy, new agey stuff,
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you also can arm yourself with some arguments
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for the members of your family and your life
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that maybe aren't so tuned into the typical language
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around those practices.
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Like, oh, connection is really key.
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We all get oxytocin.
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Actually, did you know that connection between individuals
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rarely causes the release of oxytocin?
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Oxytocin is released in very particular circumstances
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like post-orgasm, baby and mother, milk let down.
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It's associated with kind of really intense
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kinds of pair bonding things of mother and child,
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also father and child, but especially mother and child
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because it's relationship to the lactation system.
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Couples post sex, these kinds of things
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that were reflect deep kind of layers of our biology.
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And oxytocin is not just released when we walk in
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and pat the dog on the head,
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or we see somebody and we give them a hug
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and hey, great to see you, fist bump.
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That's not a situation for oxytocin.
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The way to think about social connection
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and how it can mitigate
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some of the long-term effects of stress
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is really through the systems of neuromodulation
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like serotonin and through blocking certain things
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that are really bad for us when we feel socially isolated,
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things like tachykinins.
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So let me explain what these are.
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Serotonin again is a neuromodulator.
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Neuromodulators are a little bit like playlists
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in the brain.
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They tend to amplify or bias the likelihood
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that certain brain circuits and body circuits
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are going to be activated and that others will not.
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Serotonin generally, and I realize I'm speaking
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very generally here, but it generally gives us feelings
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of wellbeing at very high levels.
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It makes us feel blissed and it tends to make us feel
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like we have enough in our immediate environment.
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This is why some of the side effects of antidepressants
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that elevate serotonin and actually can help a lot of people
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with depressive symptoms.
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But the side effects associated with drugs
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that increase serotonin tend to be reduced affect.
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They tend to kind of blunt affect or make people feel
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like their libido is lower, desire goes down
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because the body has so much serotonin
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and the brain has so much serotonin
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that one feels like they have enough.
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But serotonin, pharmacology aside
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or taking antidepressants aside, topic for another time,
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serotonin tends to make us feel good.
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When we see somebody that we recognize and trust,
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serotonin is released in the brain.
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And that has certain positive effects on the immune system
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and on other systems of neural repair and synapses
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and things that really reinforce connections in the brain
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and prevent that long-term withering of connections.
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So serotonin is tied to social connection.
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Now, social connection can take many forms.
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As many of you know, I am very attached to my dog.
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I hope he's attached to me.
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He's asleep most of the time, so I don't know.
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And even if he was awake,
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I don't really know what I would ask him,
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but he seems more or less to be attached to me as well.
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And there's no scientific evidence
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that it has to be human-human attachment.
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I do have attachments to humans as well,
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but you can have attachments to other people.
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Some of those can be romantic attachments.
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Those could be familial attachments
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that are non-romantic, friendship, pets,
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even attachments to things that just delight us.
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One of the things that really can mitigate
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against the long-term negative effects
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of chronic long-term stress
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isn't just having fun.
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We hear all this stuff.
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You need to play and have fun.
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That can be a little bit of a tough concept,
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especially for the hard-driving people
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or people that are stressed,
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but having a sense of delight,
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a sense of really enjoying something that you see
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and engage in, witness or participate in,
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that is associated with the serotonin system.
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And certainly play is one of those things,
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social connection of various forms.
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Those are things to invest in.
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Some people might say,
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well, nobody wants to be my friend
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or nobody wants to engage socially anymore.
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I'll be the first to admit social connection
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and friendship and relationships of all kinds
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to animals or humans or inanimate objects takes work.
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It takes investment.
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It takes time in not needing everything
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to be exactly the way you want it to be.
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I have a friend who struggles with this
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and oftentimes the conversations just circle back
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to the fact that when you want social connection,
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you often have to be more flexible.
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You have to eat on other people's schedules.
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Sometimes you have to eat things
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you don't necessarily want to eat the most in that moment
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or stay up a little later or wake up a little earlier.
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Social connection is something that we work for,
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but it is incredibly powerful.
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I want to, of course, tip my hat to,
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it's only appropriate to call him the great Robert Sapolsky,
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my colleague who I'm fortunate to know at Stanford,
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of course, has talked about this quite a lot.
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So I want to acknowledge Robert's incredible work
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and discussions around this.
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You can look up those materials online
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and his wonderful books.
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But primates, and we are primates, we are social species.
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And as Robert has said many times before,
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never before in any primate history,
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but in particular in human history,
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have we interacted with so many strangers at a distance
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when we are not really connected to them.
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So finding just a few people, even one,
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or an animal or something that you delight in,
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believe it or not, has very positive effects
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on mitigating this long-term stress,
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on improving various aspects of our life
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as it relates to stress and emotionality.
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So that's the social connection part.
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The other thing is that social isolation that goes too long
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is associated in everything from flies, believe it or not,
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to mice and humans with this molecule, tachykinin.
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Tachykinin is a molecule that makes us more fearful,
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paranoid, and impairs our immune system.
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And so tachykinin is like this internal punishment signal.
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It's like our body and our brain telling us
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you're not spending enough time
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with people that you really trust.
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You're not spending time doing things that you really enjoy.
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And I often think about tachykinin for myself
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because I'm pretty hard driving.
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I have a lot of pursuits.
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I also have a lot of wonderful people
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and an incredibly wonderful bulldog in my life.
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But there are times when I can be so goal-directed
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and so in motion and trying to accomplish everything
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that I sometimes forget about tachykinin.
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And I like to remind myself so much
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so that I actually have a little post-it above my desk
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that says tachykinin to remind me
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that tachykinin is this very sinister molecule
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that starts being secreted
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when we are not socially connected enough.
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And this is why long meals with friends or family
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where there are, we'll talk about phones in a moment,
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but where there's no intrusions, or even if there are,
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just feeling like we are connected suppresses tachykinin.
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And tachykinin is something you really want to avoid
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because chronic isolation, chronically high tachykinin
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that's associated with long-term stress
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really depletes so many good functions of our brain and body
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and promote so many bad ones, including irritability,
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paranoia, fear, et cetera,
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that is really something to avoid.
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And so I want to highlight tachykinin as something to avoid.
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I don't want to completely disregard oxytocin.
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It's just that oxytocin has been built up a lot in the media
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and really serotonin works on much faster timescales.
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Now, how do you know if you're making serotonin?
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You don't know in the moment,
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but you can learn if you pay attention
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to kind of recognize these feelings of comfort,
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trust, bliss, delight, and those are not weak terms.
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Those are not associated just with psychological terms.
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They are every bit as physiological
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as the movement of your muscles
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or the secretion of adrenaline.
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And many people focus now on gratitude.
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Gratitude is a little bit subjective
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and here we're moving from some objective
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to kind of subjective things,
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but recognizing and in particular writing down
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things that you're thankful for,
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however small they may seem,
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does seem to have a positive effect on the serotonin system.
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Now, there are a plethora of things
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that will also impact wellbeing
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and allow you to modulate your long-term stress,
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reduce the likelihood that you'll engage in long-term stress
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and we don't have time to go into all of these,
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but of course, finding the diet and nutrition
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that's right for you, the exercise schedule,
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that's right for you, the sleep schedule, all that,
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but do not underemphasize the social connection part, please.
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As well, there are some compounds
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that are not antidepressants,
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although if you need antidepressants
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and a clinician prescribes them to you,
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please follow their advice if that's what's right for you.
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There are compounds that are not prescription compounds
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that can modulate the stress system
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and sometimes because of the way that life is,
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we just don't have the opportunity to control life
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and to control our response to stress
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and at least for myself,
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I can only talk about my own experience,
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I've found it useful in times of chronic stress
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to start modulating some of the neurochemistry
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related to the stress response in order to help.
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Now, if a doctor prescribes you Pregnisone
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or prescribes you some other hormone or something,
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that's important, but what I'm talking about now
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are non-prescription things,
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you should check out examine.com, this free website,
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which will allow you to put in any supplement
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and evaluate that supplement with,
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they provide links in the so-called human effect matrix
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to PubMed, it tells you the exact subjects they were done in
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it was a post-menopausal women, was it kids,
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was it normal adults, was it people with autism, et cetera.
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01:17:27.280
Check out that site for any and all supplements
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you're considering or taking, I highly recommend it,
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01:17:32.000
I have no relationship to them,
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I just think it's a wonderful site
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that's curated all this important information,
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01:17:37.460
but some of these compounds are effective enough,
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they can kind of take the edge off
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and I'll use them periodically myself
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and so I just thought I'd mention them
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since there are a number of you that are interested in them,
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the three I wanna focus on
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and one that I think you need to be cautious about
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that I've mentioned before include Ashwagandha,
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funny name, but that's what it's called,
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01:17:59.920
L-theanine or theanine it's often called and melatonin.
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Let's talk about melatonin first,
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melatonin I talked about during the month on sleep,
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melatonin is a hormone secreted from the pineal
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in direct relationship to how much darkness you are in,
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not emotional darkness, but light suppresses melatonin,
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01:18:16.420
melatonin helps you fall asleep,
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it doesn't help you stay asleep,
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I personally do not recommend supplementing melatonin
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because it's supplemented typically at very high levels,
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one to three milligrams or even more,
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that is an outrageously high dose,
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it's super, super physiological compared
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to what you normally would make,
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it also has a number of potentially negative effects
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on the reproductive axis and hormones there,
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some people can take it without problems if you like it
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and that's your thing, fine,
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I just wanna cue to the fact that there can be issues,
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you should check on examine.com, talk to your doctor,
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01:18:50.900
especially in kids because melatonin suppresses
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the puberty response in a number of species,
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enough about the negative things of melatonin
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except that people who take too much melatonin chronically,
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oftentimes when they're taking it to sleep
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or for whatever reason,
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yes, it can reduce anxiety and stress,
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but it also can reduce the output of the adrenals
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to the point where it can become problematic,
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now, a note about adrenal burnout,
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there is actually no such thing as adrenal burnout
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under normal conditions,
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the adrenals have enough adrenaline
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to support 200 years of stress for better or for worse,
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the concept of adrenal burnout has origins
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in the work of Nobel Prize winner, Hans Selye
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who actually discovered
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what he called the general adaptation syndrome,
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01:19:38.100
he discovered a lot of things about stress,
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he did some phenomenal work that turned out to be true,
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that we have stressors, there's something called distress,
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he talked about eustress, which is positive stress,
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eustress has never really caught on
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in the kind of more general discussion,
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but he had this theory that if stress went on long enough
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that you would eventually reach a phase called exhaustion
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and that turned out to be wrong,
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although many of you may feel exhausted after chronic stress
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there isn't really a physiological exhaustion that happens
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and that eventually got picked up
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and ran with the general public
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and they talk about adrenal burnout,
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too much coffee, adrenal burnout, you hear all this stuff,
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there is no such thing as adrenal burnout,
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the adrenals don't burn out,
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there is something however called adrenal insufficiency
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syndrome, which is a real physiological problem
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where some people have very impaired adrenals
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and they can't produce adrenaline
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01:20:29.460
and melatonin taken at very high levels
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for periods of time that are too long
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can cause suppression of the cortisol
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and epinephrine release from the adrenals
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and can create a kind of pseudo
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adrenal insufficiency syndrome,
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so beware melatonin for that reason,
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please, I alone can't get rid
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of the phrase adrenal burnout,
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I'm not trying to give a hard time
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to anyone who feels burnt out or exhausted
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but it is for other reasons,
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it is not because the adrenals are burnt out
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unless you happen to have adrenal insufficiency syndrome,
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so I'm not a fan of melatonin for a lot of reasons,
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now I've mentioned several,
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the other is L-theanine, I've talked about L-theanine
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which provided it's safe for you
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can be taken 100 milligrams or 200 milligrams
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about a 30 minutes or 60 minutes before sleep,
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it can enhance the transition to sleep
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and depth of sleep for many people,
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01:21:21.740
it increases GABA, this inhibitory neurotransmitter
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in the brain, it tends to turn off
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our forebrain a little bit
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or reduce the activity of our kind of thinking systems
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and ruminating systems help people fall asleep,
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that's for sleep but theanine has also been shown
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for people that are chronically anxious
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or chronically stressed to, if you look at the studies,
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I have a large collection of studies in front of me right now
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if you want to see those links,
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I know if you want those, go to examine.com,
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put in theanine, they link to, for instance,
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it is known to significantly increase relaxation,
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there are four studies listed there with PubMed links,
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it is known to have a minor effect on anxiety
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01:21:55.140
but eight studies have shown that
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which I think is a fairly large set of studies,
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some of them in great journals,
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01:22:02.580
it also can reduce task completion anxiety,
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so anxiety related to task completion,
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not good for the procrastinators perhaps
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but for those of you that are chronically stressed,
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it can increase attention a little bit,
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01:22:12.700
it can reduce blood pressure a little bit,
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01:22:14.460
improve sleep quality, et cetera,
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it definitely has a notable effect on stress,
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two studies in particular
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that it can notably reduce the effects of stress,
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so there's a lot there, it also has effects on insomnia,
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on some blood lipid profiles
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and so go to examine.com and check it out
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but this is one reason why I supplement theanine for sleep
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but if I'm feeling like I've been under a lot of stress
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and I'm not managing my stress very well
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with the short-term and medium-term tools
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that I talked about earlier,
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I might start taking a little bit of theanine
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especially in the late afternoon
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which is when I tend to start to feel
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like I haven't gotten enough done
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and the day is kind of carrying on
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and so you can blunt the response to stress a little bit
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which is why a lot of companies
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are now putting theanine into energy drinks,
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I am not a big fan of most energy drinks,
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most of them have taurine
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which I know some of you wrote to me and said,
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oh, taurine is great for all these reasons,
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taurine also has effects on the microvasculature
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that at least for me were not good,
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it caused bursting of microvasculature in my sclera,
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in my eyes, which is why I'm not a fan
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of any energy drink that has taurine or taurine generally
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but that's just me, you have to decide for you,
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I'm sure the comment section,
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there'll be a couple taurinistas out there that will say,
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but I love taurine, great,
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keep the taurine companies in business
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but it's not for me and I'd like people to know
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that it may or may not be for them.
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The other supplement that can be very useful is ashwagandha,
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ashwagandha is known to lower anxiety and cortisol,
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there is six, there are, excuse me, six studies
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that collectively show reductions in cortisol
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which is cortisol is typically associated
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with waking up in the morning, which is good,
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that's a healthy brief cortisol bump that goes away
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provided you're getting your light at the right time of days
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at right correct times of day, like morning and evening
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but you don't want cortisol chronically elevated,
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that's associated with all the bad stuff about stress,
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there's a very strong effect of ashwagandha,
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you can find dosages at examine.com,
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they report in across six studies,
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14.5 to 27.9 reduction in cortisol
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in otherwise healthy but stressed individuals.
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Now, I don't know about kids,
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you have to look at what it says on various supplements,
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most things here are being done in adults
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so please check carefully but this is great,
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I mean, the opportunity for me anyway
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to be able to take something that can help me
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reduce my cortisol so that I don't get
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some of the long-term effects of stress
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and I'm not gonna take ashwagandha year round,
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I would only do this if I was feeling like
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I wasn't managing my short and medium term stress well
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so I don't take it on a regular basis,
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I do take it when I'm in these times
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when things are particularly stressful.
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It has, there are five other studies
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that show reduced stress so that's not cortisol measurements
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but things like fatigue, cognitive impairment, et cetera.
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It does lower total cholesterol
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which may or may not be good or bad for you up to 10%
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so some people don't want their cholesterol lowered,
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some people might.
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Cholesterol, we'll talk about this in a month on hormones
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but cholesterol is the molecule
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from which testosterone and estrogen
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and cortisol for that matter are synthesized
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so you don't wanna get your cholesterol so low
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then there are all sorts of negative effects
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but you don't want it too high either.
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Mild effects in good clinical studies
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on reducing depression probably associated
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with the effects on stress and some other things as well.
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So ashwagandha is something I use from time to time,
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it's kind of interesting.
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L-theanine, I rarely will use those during the daytime
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except under conditions
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where I'm feeling chronically stressed.
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So check out the human effect matrix on examine.com.
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Again, a phenomenal website.
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I think I've sent them a few emails before
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that's the only exchanges I've ever had with them
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but I just think it's wonderful
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that they put together this resource.
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Otherwise, we'd be stuck mining PubMed.
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They've collated the papers from PubMed
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with links to PubMed, so terrific resource.
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So social connection and some supplementation,
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of course, diet, exercise, sleep for long-term stress.
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And now we are finally in a position to talk
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about what we have set out to do from the beginning
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which is spend the month on emotions.
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It was very important that we discuss stress
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and we discuss in the context of short,
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medium and long-term stress,
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that we discuss tools for short-term,
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medium-term and long-term control.
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I don't really want to say mitigation of stress.
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Stress is going to happen
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but our ability to modulate and control stress
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in real time, offline, using tools such as respiration,
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using tools such as dilation of gaze,
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using tools like social connection, maybe some supplements.
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Certainly take care of your sleep and nutrition
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and exercise.
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Again, tons of resources and information
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in the sleep episodes.
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So you can look there.
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We will do a month on hormones, on exercise, et cetera.
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But let's talk about emotions
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because in subsequent episodes,
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we're going to talk about OCD.
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We're going to talk about depression.
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We're going to talk about mania.
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We're going to be talking about dopamine
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and all sorts of things.
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But at the core of emotions is this question,
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what is an emotion?
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Well, it's complex.
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There isn't a single brain area
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for any one of these things that we call emotions.
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My framework, and I think the modern science,
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both psychology and neuroscience is pretty well aligned
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with what Lisa Feldman Barrett has talked about.
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Now, Lisa's at Northeastern University.
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She runs a big lab there.
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She's a world expert in emotion.
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She's written two books that are really wonderful.
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One is How Emotions Are Made, which was her first book.
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The second one is Seven and a Half Facts About the Brain.
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It's a wonderful book as well.
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It came out more recently.
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I hosted Lisa on an Instagram Live once.
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Maybe we'll get her here on the podcast if we're lucky.
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We don't agree on everything
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about the neuroscience of emotions,
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but I subscribe to most everything that I've heard Lisa say,
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in particular, the fact that emotions are context dependent,
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there's a cultural dependence, et cetera.
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I look at things mainly through the lens of physiology
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and neuroscience at kind of low level circuitry.
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And one way to think about emotions
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that I think is consistent,
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and I think Lisa would generally approve,
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I can't speak for her,
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but I would hope she would generally approve
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of this description is that when our internal state
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of stress or calm matches the demands on us
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or is mismatched from the demands on us,
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we tend to interpret those as good or bad.
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Let me give you an example.
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If I am feeling very anxious, very stressed inside,
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and I have a lot to do, that doesn't feel good,
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but it's really no different than if I'm very tired
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and I have a lot to do because there's this mismatch.
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I'm not in the right internal state.
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My internal state isn't correct rather
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to meet the demands that are being placed upon me.
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So in both cases, whether I'm too tired
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or I'm too stressed to do what I need to do,
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the valence, meaning the value that I assigned to that is,
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I don't feel good.
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It's not a good situation and I don't feel good.
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Now I might call it stressed, I might call it anxious,
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I might call it worried, might call it a number of things,
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but it's not good.
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However, when I'm tired and I want to fall asleep,
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well then I feel good because that's what the demand is.
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I need to go to sleep and I'm tired.
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If I'm wide awake and I need to fall asleep,
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then that's not good.
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And then the brain tends to go down the direction
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of interpreting the situation as a bad one.
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So while the discussion around emotions is far more nuanced
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and more elaborate than this,
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one way to think about your relationship to emotions
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is whether or not your internal state
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is matching the demands that are upon you.
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So in that way, we don't really place so much value
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on whether or not we're feeling alert or sleepy.
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We only place value on whether or not that alertness,
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whether or not it's full-blown stress or not,
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or our sleepiness, whether or not we're falling asleep
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or just a little bit drowsy,
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whether or not that matches the conditions that we face.
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And it's a useful framework to have.
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And it's the reason in part
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why I spent this last hour and a half or so
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talking about stress and how to control stress.
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One reason we did that
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is because I think it's a valuable opportunity
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to learn some tools and understand stress
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and really learn how to take control of stress,
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which I think we could all benefit from doing,
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regardless of age.
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The other reason is that when you start to understand
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that you have this kind of seesaw system in your body,
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this autonomic nervous system
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that takes you from alert and calm to stressed,
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to full-blown panic, it has that capacity,
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or from sleepy and drowsy to passing out tired
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to God forbid, let's hope never, but a coma, right?
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That you're basically on this seesaw all the time.
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And where you are on that seesaw of alertness or calmness
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positions you to be in better reaction
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to the demands that you face,
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whether or not the thing that you face
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is a need to fall asleep or to listen quietly and not react.
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You now know, for instance,
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that if your job is to take feedback,
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maybe you're going in for a job evaluation,
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01:31:21.640
or you're in a relationship
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where there was a call for a discussion
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and somebody needs to talk to you about something
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and we need to talk about something,
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you're going to them like,
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oh goodness, this is going to be rough.
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01:31:33.020
Learning to reduce that stress response a little bit
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so that you are in a position to hear the information better
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and remember from a previous episode,
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if you close your eyes,
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you'll be able to actually focus on the information better.
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There's your permission to not look someone directly
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in the eye while they talk to you
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if you really want to hear what they have to say.
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You will be able to modulate that stress response
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and lean into life better.
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You will be able to react to things in a more effective way
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and to not be reactive.
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01:32:00.980
And this is really one of the important things to me anyway,
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is that so much of the language around psychology,
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which I think is a wonderful field,
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but pop psychology in particular is,
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be responsive, not reactive.
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Well, great, but then how does one do that?
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Well, one does that by modulating
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their short-term stress response in real time,
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not by saying, hold on, I need to meditate,
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hold on, I need a massage,
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and then I can have this conversation
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by modulating the reactivity in real time.
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How does one, for instance, be mindful,
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which is a beautiful concept, but how are you mindful?
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Well, I don't know, when I'm moving through my day,
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a lot of times I'm just trying to get things done.
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And as soon as I start monitoring and seeing what I'm doing
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and kind of third-personing what I'm doing,
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it actually takes me out of the effectiveness
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and experience of what I'm doing.
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So for me, sometimes that mindfulness,
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that observer as they call it,
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is something that doesn't help me, it actually hinders me.
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What's important to me is to be able to work and focus
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and then to be able to disengage,
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to be able to do a non-sleep deep rest
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or to be able to still fall asleep,
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even though I've been working hard until 9.30
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to put my head down at 10 o'clock
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and be out cold sleeping by 10.02.
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That's possible if you can learn
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to control this stress response.
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And to do that, we can't use the mind to control the mind,
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we need tools.
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And so a lot of the people being grumpy
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or anxious or depressed, a lot of that,
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provided it's not for some underlying neurochemical reason
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that's chronic, a lot of that comes from being
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poorly rested, from overworked,
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from feeling like the world is bearing down on us.
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And so rather than take a subjective view of this,
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I take the view of objective physiology.
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What can we do that's anchored to these neuronal systems
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in our body, in our brain, in our eyes,
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in our diaphragm, et cetera, and look to those as tools,
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levers that we can pull on and push
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and maneuver through life in a way
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where we start to feel like we have some agency,
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we actually have some real control
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because we're controlling the internal landscape.
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So I think that ought to set the stage
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for where we're headed next, which is to talk about
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all the things that you normally think of
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when you think of emotions, like happiness,
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like awe, like joy, and we will get into some of that.
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But all of that rests firmly on the foundation
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of this thing we call the autonomic nervous system,
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this stress modulation, this calming modulation system.
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And again, whether or not you're activated or you're calm
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is not good or bad, it depends on the situation.
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Certainly when you want to fall asleep,
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being activated isn't good.
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When you have work to do, being activated is great.
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So I hope today you were able to take
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a slightly different view of this thing that we call stress,
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not just see it as evil, but see it as powerful and useful
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in certain contexts, great for us in certain contexts,
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and problematic in other contexts,
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and as well to think about the various tools
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that I've presented that can allow you to adjust
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and modulate your internal levels of alertness or calmness
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so that you can lean more effectively into life,
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which includes sleep and social connection
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and the work you have to do.
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And of course acknowledges that the events in the world
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are beyond our control.
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What's in our control is how we react to them.
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Something that's commonly said in the wellness
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and self-help and psychology world,
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but for which there often aren't as many concrete tools
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that we can really look to and trust in real time.
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And of course there are other tools out there as always.
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I'll say it, I strive to be accurate,
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but I'll never be exhaustive.
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I might have exhausted you.
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I might've cured your insomnia with this discussion today,
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but in all seriousness,
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my goal is to bring you tools and information
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so that you can manage better through life.
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So thanks so much.
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I very much want to thank all of you
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for your support for the podcast.
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It's really been wonderful.
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If you've subscribed to the podcast on YouTube,
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Apple or Spotify, or maybe even all three, terrific.
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If you haven't, please do subscribe on YouTube,
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which would be wonderful.
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On Apple, you can leave a five-star review
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If you have suggestions,
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As well, if you could recommend the podcast to friends,
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from the information, maybe even send them the links
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if you like, that's tremendously helpful.
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Today, as in previous episodes,
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I've touched on some things
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as they relate to supplementation.
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As always, I always cover a lot of tools
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that are zero cost tools
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that don't involve ingesting anything at all,
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behavioral tools.
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But I mentioned some supplements
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that I particularly find useful.
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With supplements, it's a complicated landscape often
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because many supplement companies don't put in the bottle
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what they say is in the particular product.
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We've partnered with Thorne, T-H-O-R-N-E,
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because Thorne is a supplement company
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that we know to have the highest levels of stringency.
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It's used by the Mayo Clinic,
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it's used by all the major sports organizations
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for that particular reason
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and because their quality standards are exceptionally high.
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If you'd like to try any supplements
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and see the ones that I take,
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you can go to Thorne, T-H-O-R-N-E.com
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slash the letter U slash Huberman.
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And if you do that, you'll get 20% off
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anything that's listed there on my page,
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as well as any of the supplements that Thorne sells.
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So that's Thorne, T-H-O-R-N-E.com
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slash the letter U slash Huberman
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to get 20% off anything that Thorne sells.
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In addition, if you want to follow us on Twitter,
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we're there at Huberman Lab or on Instagram, Huberman Lab.
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I also do some content on Huberman Lab,
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a little neuroscience post.
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Some are reposted clips from the podcast.
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Others are unique content
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that you won't find on the podcast.
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So you can follow us at Huberman Lab.
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Also, if you like, check out our Patreon,
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patreon.com slash Andrew Huberman.
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And most of all, and as always,
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really appreciate your time and attention today.
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I hope you practice some of the tools
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if they're right for you.
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I hope you think hard about stress
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and how you can control your stress.
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And above all, as always,
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thank you for your interest in science.